A message to Ashton Kutcher regarding promotion of pit bulls 11

Dear Mr. Kutcher,

12042898_10207325317043402_6979741696134909944_nA recent Facebook post of yours was brought to my attention by a concerned advocate of victims of pit bulls. In your own words, you encouraged your friends and fans to “look past” and ignore the pit bull stereotypes; to consider owning one as a pet. As a parent of a child that was fatally mauled by two well-loved pit bulls, I find your post alarming. You have recently become a new father yourself. I would like to share with you, my son’s story.

Before March 6th, 2013, I thought very little about pit bulls. I knew they could be somewhat aggressive towards other dogs, but had heard that they were great with people. My friend owned two pit bulls that I had met several times. When I visited, I felt very comfortable with her dogs as she had owned them since they were puppies.  They had never shown aggression and they sometimes played with friend’s dogs in the fenced area behind her house.  They were three years old, well cared for and neutered.  Until that fateful day these were very mild mannered, normal canine pets.

Occasionally I allowed my friend to babysit my son, Daxton. My biggest concern with the dogs was that they could knock over my son due to their size. By all accounts, the dogs were well behaved, well cared for, very much loved, and trained to follow commands. If you would have talked to me on March 5, 2013, I probably would Dax and dad damhave agreed with your Facebook plea.

On March 6th, my world changed forever. While my friend was carrying my son in her arms, she called her dogs in from their bathroom break from their outdoor run. Her dogs started to become aggressive and jump on her. They tore Daxton from her arms and launched a fifteen minute attack on my child. They ripped off his clothes and diaper. They mauled half of his face, and they severed his spinal cord. During this savage assault, my friend tried to fight off her pit bulls with no success. In their frenzy, they did not obey any of their commands or even respond to their names. They were focused solely on my son, their “prey”. She eventually extricated Daxton from the dogs and he was transported to the medical facility. From the hospital, he was taken by life flight to the Children’s Hospital in Milwaukee. He died that day at 14-months old.

I couldn’t imagine in my wildest dreams that I would lose my son this way. At first I was told that this was just a “freak accident”, but after extensive research, I came to learn that my son was the 285th American killed by pit bulls since 1982. Pit bulls are responsible for the majority of human and animal dog related deaths. This wasn’t a “freak accident”, but a preventable death. Like most of the public, I wasn’t aware or adequately educated about this breed of dog.

Border Collie 1The “stereotypes” about pit bulls are true and accurate. They are supposed to be true because a dog breed is based on a stereotype. The whole concept of dog breeds is based on breed traits crafted through decades of selection for appearance, correct form and function. While each dog does have an individual personality, they are also bred for specific behaviors. The whole notion is that the majority of Spaniels, Retrievers, Beagles, Border Collies or plain old lap dogs will behave in a manner consistent with their breed. For the most part, this is true. When you see a Labrador Retriever with a tennis ball in its mouth or playing in water, those are breed specific behaviors. When you see a Beagle following scent or hear it baying in the back yard, those are breed specific behaviors. When you see a Border Collie nipping at the heels of other animals or children that is a breed specific behavior. Each breed has a purpose and pit bulls are no exception. For centuries, they were bred for bull baiting and dog fighting. When they bite something, they do not puncture and release, they grip, shake and tear. This causes devastating injuries very quickly. When it comes to dog attacks, breed does matter. Click here to read the American Pit Bull Terrier breed bio from our website. I highly encourage you to take a moment to read it.

LETTER MEME DAXTON_ASHTONAs a public figure, you have a great deal of influence and a tremendous following. Millions of people will read your Facebook post and many of them will believe your words. You will reach more people than I ever could. As a fellow father, I am asking you to hold off on future comments or posts about pit bulls until you fully research and understand the breed. It could make the difference between life and death for another family. This year alone 22 people have been killed by pit bulls, including 8 children and thousands of others have been mauled. The year my son was killed, he was 1 of 16 children killed by pit bulls. These numbers do not even include the near 50,000 animal victims per year. We all live downstream and you have the opportunity to prevent a death from a pit bull mauling.
I wake up every morning regretting my decision to let Daxton near pit bulls. I will never see my beloved son grow up and I will forever mourn everything that could have been. There is an enormous hole in me that will never be filled. I share with you my son’s story in hopes of preventing another family from going through the intense anguish my wife and I have been through.

I am available to answer any questions or to provide documentation and sources to my claims. Please feel free to reach out or to visit my website at Daxtonsfriends.com.

Jeff Borchardt
Daxton’s Friends for Canine Education & Awareness

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11 thoughts on “A message to Ashton Kutcher regarding promotion of pit bulls

  • Da Ninja

    Poignant, Jeff – I hope he reads it. I hope he is more substantial than I fear he is, that he is not just jumping on the Pit Bull bandwagon because he knows it will bring him numbers gratification. I hope he reads it as the Gift of truth from a father with a fallen son, to a father with a living son and understands the gravity of his comments and his actions upon the living sons and daughters of others.

    We will see.

    Thank you.

    • Da Ninja

      Beg pardon – your child is a daughter. I hope you do the right thing by her and for ALL the sons and daughters of people who may be influenced by you.

  • Mayra Castillo

    My deepest condolences to you and your wife. Losing a child is an indescribable and terrible feeling. My world also changed for the worst on November 8, 2015. My 9 year old precious daughter, Amiyah Dunston, was mauled by a 2 year old pitbull while playing with friends. Sunday, November 14, 2015 I saw my beautiful, brown eyed, curly haired child for the last time. She is at peace now but I still have no answers as to what happened on that tragic day. I cried when I read your story and send all my love from Long Island, NY. I am in deep mourning and everyday I feel I am living a nightmare. I pray for you.

    • Daxtons Friends Post author

      I am so sorry. We have been following your story very closely. We have a radio interview today in San Francisco to discuss the tragic loss of your daughter and the dangers of keeping fighting breeds as pets. If you would like additional support or just someone to talk to, please send an e-mail to [email protected]

    • Lori Welbourne

      Your little princess was absolutely beautiful. I am so sorry for your tragic loss – we all are. Please know that you have a family of supporters here wanting to help you and your family through this – many of whom know what it’s like to lose a child so horrifically. A lot of these people have been working many years trying to inform the public about the truths about pit bulls and they are met with an onslaught of hostile denial from those who truly have no idea and those who profit from their existence. What happened to Amiyah should never have happened. Our hearts go out to you. Nothing could be worse.

    • Lew Heifner

      Mayra, you have more people praying for your family than you realize, dozens in my circle alone. I am so sorry for your loss and your family is now a part of my daily prayer list. Amiyah will not be forgotten.

    • Joanie

      We are so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately the national news media is censoring pitbull fatalities so people are not aware of how often they attack people unprovoked or how it is next to impossible for anyone to get them to let go. Jeff Borchardt and others that have been through this horror too, and they are here to comfort you and your family when you are ready. Amiyah’s loss is a tragedy to our entire nation as every life is precious. Many in our groups are trying to prevent these attacks from happening. We wish we could of prevented what happened to Amiyah. We will never stop trying to protect people from pitbulls.

    • Kamelia

      Hi Mayra , I saw your daughter once at Tanai’s House . She was so sweet. I’m so sorry about what happened

  • Pam Ashley

    Dear Ashton,
    I know Jeff and Kim, Dax’s parents, well yet I still cannot stop the tears when I relive his death through Jeff’s words and regrets. Parents should never leave their baby with a trusted friend to never see him alive again because of poor breed choice.

    Susan Iwicki whose pit bulls killed her tiny charge relives that 15 minutes of pure hell on earth every day, helpless to stop it then, helpless to stop reliving it now. In hindsight, she knows she did everything for her pit bulls that any good pet owner does for any pet. Pit bull type was the cause of Dax’s death, the only commonality with all other severe attacks by pit bull dogs.

    Take a long 15 minutes on the clock to imagine Wyatt in the grips of two fighting breed dogs that you believed to be stereotyped incorrectly. The incorrect stereotype is that they are anything but gladiator dogs bred for pit fighting and gambling by dog men who will not allow their own children in their unmuzzled presence.

    Your words have a heavy weight with young, impressionable people who will not research past “Ashton said so.” Pit bulls severely injure and kill too many people for a celebrity like yourself to toss out such damning propaganda that WILL lead to someone’s severe injury or death.

    Research National Pit Bull Victim Awareness, dogsbite.org before believing what you posted about stereotyping pit bulls. Protect Wyatt by keeping her away from all fighting breed dogs, pit bulls, American bull dogs, cane corsos, Tosas, bull mastiffs because these breeds consistently top every chart on human trauma and death by dog attack.

    Mr. Kutcher, talk with Jeff. You will learn from his grief and research.

    Pam Ashley, R.N.
    Owner of Weimaraner, Bleu, killed by neighbor pit bulls

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